Living in Turkey
It is now about 4 years ago since I left Sweden to start a new life with my, at the time, boyfriend, today we are married. And since today is exactly 4 years ago I came here with a one-way ticket, I thought I was gonna share some of the reflections I’ve had since I got here.
I first
want to start off by saying, it is NOT dangerous to come to Turkey! I have no
idea why media has been painting Turkey like a land where bombs go off
everywhere all the time. This is NOT true! I’d even like to say it is maybe
even safer to go to Turkey than to any other European country because Turkey is
working hard to eliminate terrorism. And just look what happened in Stockholm,
Paris and Barcelona, Europe is not very safe neither.
Turkish is
REALLY difficult to learn! After so many years and several Turkish courses I
still have problem with it. It is definitely the most difficult language I have
after tried to learn. But slowly I am learning. The biggest challenge for me is
to remember words because they are so completely different from other languages
I have learned. Like for example the color red, in Swedish röd, English red,
Spanish rojo and frensh rouge, but in Turkish its kırmızı……. it is not even a
little bit similar, so it takes me forever to learn words.
The Turkish
food is amazing, but I guess you already know that so won’t mention it too
much. Just promise me to try the different soups and the Turkish breakfast next
time you come here.
The traffic
here is insane :D I still refuse to drive here. I don’t understand the
unwritten rules that everyone else seems to know. So my tip when you come here,
always be careful when you are crossing a street and look both right and left
before crossing. You can’t trust the traffic even if it is a one-way street or when
you have a “green man”.
The
interest in Turkey is truly high. So if you want to save your money with a good
interest rate, you should move them here. I have had some money in Denizbank
for about 4 years and always had an interest rate between 8-12, beat that Sweden
if you can!
It is truly
a blessing to be able to live on a walking distance to the beach. Now I can
take an hour or two after work and just go down to the beach for a swim, a cold
beer or just to relax on a sunbed. Before I spent a lot of money and vacation
time to do just this.
You realize
how exhausting it can be to almost never be able to speak your own language.
Most of the time you are using your second or third language, and you are
speaking to someone who also is not speaking in their own language. So
misunderstandings happen, but on the other hand, you get really good at body
language :D
When you
are living abroad you also get very use to living outside the box and to push
your comfort zone. So you really are growing as a person as well as learning to
laugh at yourself and the mistakes you do.
Turkish
people are also really friendly and generous. If you come to a friend’s shop
you will always get tea or coffee, and if you come at lunchtime you get lunch
also.
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